Can you tell a friend that you dont want to be with her today? Without risking that she will be pissed off, and say things that you dont want to hear? How do you do that? How do you tell a friend that you dont want to be with her and the rest of the gang today. That you want to be alone or with someone else?
I try to be honest, but sometimes its hard because you know how she will react, so I lie, so I tell her I´ve promised someone else that I would be with them today or the next day. Just so I wont hurt her feelings or risk that she gets really pissed at me.
But is she a good friend if she gets angry at me if I am honest? I dont want to lie, but I know her temper and I choose to tell her this “white lie” and get away with it.
How many times have we lied to our friends, even the tinest lie counts. How many times have I and the rest of the world chosen to say something else than the truth to save ourselves from a potentially fight, or just to have some time for ourselves.
No one likes to be a liar, no ones likes to admit that they are a liar, I know I have told lies before, who hasent? But when it gets to friends and family you shouldnt have to lie, but again what do you say to a friend that has a bad temper and probably will get pissed at you?
Back then I told her I had to be with another friend, without actually having to be with my other friend. But this time I am going to tell her the truth. I am going to tell her that I dont want to hang out with them, I just dont want to, I just want to be home.
I believe that in a friendship you should be able to tell eachother the truth and I am really trying here, but I dont like that she gets angry with me. I guess I just have to do it and then see what happens next.
